MY OPEN LETTER TO MY FUTURE WIFE

Hello, my future wife.

Whether you are reading this before you meet me, or stumble upon it after, I want you to know a few things.
The reason I am writing this today is because I can’t stop thinking about you, and I can’t stop myself from imagining how happy we will be. Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be the man I want to be for you.
I may not yet know all of the difficulties that come with a lifetime commitment, but I have enough relationship experience to know what I want and how I picture my life with the person I will commit to: you.
Those around me are a continuous source of education and inspiration on how I want our relationship to be. So here and today, I vow to try my best to do the following:
I promise to do my best to make you beam daily, so count on many surprises. Your smile will be my priority. I get weak knees when anybody smiles, so just imagine the effort I will make to be the source of yours.
I promise I will always look at you with the same adoration as I did the moment I realized I loved you.
I promise to try to ignite the same sparkle in your eyes I see when you’re surprised, inspired, motivated or when you are about to lean in to kiss me.
I promise to hold your hand when we’re 80 years old with the same liveliness that I did when I crossed that line to hold yours for the first time. I vow never to let the excitement of dating me die down; I will surprise you with the location, the reason or the activity itself.
I promise to keep you guessing where we’re going next. I promise to do my best always to interest you. I will keep reinventing myself, gaining new hobbies, new knowledge and new interests to keep you -- and myself -- entertained.
I promise to have new stories to share with you, and maybe I’ll retell the best ones again if you insist. Our friendship will continue to grow over the years.
I vow to challenge you to challenge yourself for the better; to make you think differently. I promise to try to feed off of your illuminating energy that will inspire me to do the same with myself. I will do my best to ensure that being bored never crosses your mind.
Even in grief and darkness, I promise to show you the different shades of the dark, and to help you find the tiny rays of light that are always there if you seek them. After all, there’s always worse than worst and better than best; everything is relative.
I promise to kiss you throughout our life together, with the same passion I had the first time I felt my lips on yours. When we kiss, I want it to slow down time -- just you and me engulfed in our feelings.
I promise to play the games you like to play.
I promise to do my best to remain physically attractive for you, and I will do my best to be healthy in order to keep up with our children and grandchildren; someone has got to teach them Muay Thai kickboxing. I’ll train you, too; I want you to know how to fight and defend yourself, just don’t use it against me.
I promise to help you to be healthy, both physically and mentally. I will cook and clean for us. Expect the best breakfast: traditional Armenian tomato and pepper omelets, followed by fruit salad with… well, I can’t give all the secrets out.
I promise to strive to be a role model for our children. I want both you and them to see me as a source of motivation. I want to inspire them in the same way that my father inspires me.
I promise to do my best to love your family as you love them and to be by their side as much as I am by yours.
I promise to always listen to you when you simply just want to be heard; when you want someone to vent to about something or when you want advice.
I will listen to you especially when you don’t feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with anybody else, and to the things you try to tell me when you’re not even speaking. I promise to always listen.
During our life together, I promise to make sure that you feel as though you are the center of the household -- I know you will be -- and I will always try to show my appreciation for you because of that. Being the man of the house is nothing without a woman.
I promise never to let my guard down in taking care of us. I know you won’t be one to be satisfied with the bare minimum.
I promise to do everything that I can for you without taking away from your independence physically, intellectually or emotionally.

Yours sincerely,
Hubby

MY OPEN LETTER TO MY FUTURE CHILD

Dear potential future child,

The world exists and you exist. It is up to you to find the harmony in both.
Did you know that children are innately curious? They constantly question the intricacies of the world; they are persistent in their questions; they see possibility in everything. They have the questions that no one is able to answer, and because of this society tears them apart. I want you to hold steadfastly to your curiosity because it is important that you question what you are told, question authority, and question the world as a whole.
If you come to the conclusion that school is not a place that you thrive in, it does not matter.
Learning begins the moment we take our first breath and does not cease to be until we take our last, so why bother forcing something that is so beautiful when it happens naturally? Some of the best learning happens far beyond the walls of a classroom. You do not need to believe what others tell you just because they are your teachers, your coaches, your peers, or even your parents. I do not want you to blindly believe what you are told, rather I want you to think critically each and every minute of every day.
Do not be afraid of your emotions whether society tells you that you have too many or too few. The emotions that you have are yours alone, and no one in their right mind can tell you how you should be feeling in any particular instance. Be open with your emotions only to the extent in which you feel comfortable doing so. We have far less control over our emotions than we realize, just try not to fight the ones that you do have. Do not be afraid to love freely, and when I say this I mean do not be afraid to love yourself and others with all of your heart.
Sometimes the world can be quite an exhausting place, and it is perfectly acceptable to shy away from it. There is nothing wrong with desiring to be utterly alone at times, and there is certainly nothing wrong with enjoying your own company. When surrounded by the outside world, I do not want you to feel the pressure to talk when you do not feel comfortable doing so, nor do I want you to hold back when you well and truly have something to say.
There is no need to edit yourself before you speak, but there is nothing wrong with doing so either. You need not label yourself as an introvert or an extrovert, rather become both or become neither.
I do want you to value your alone time, but I also want to provide you with the encouragement to seek solace in others. There is beauty in both camaraderie and escape.
In life, there is no reason to seek reassurance or validation from those around you because the only person that you need as consistent support is yourself. If others do not respect you for it, it is their loss. If you do happen to seek reassurance from others just make sure it doesn’t fog up your lens of reality. Be open-minded in life, and do not be afraid to hear those who are in opposition to you; you will become a much stronger person because of it.
Hold steadfastly to your values, but never belittle the values of others. Be flexible when you feel that your values or opinions begin to shift because change is natural, and it would be an unfortunate waste to spend your life with a mind of rigidity. Regardless of what you believe, be respectful. Be respectful to yourself, to others, to the environment, and to the world.
Never in a million years allow society to put constraints on who you are as a person because of your gender, your age, your sexuality, your race or any other aspect that is a core part of you. Your capabilities are limitless, but only if you believe them to be so.
I cannot shield you from the harsh realities of the world, but rather I can give you guidance in seeking a better reality. It is an unfortunate occurrence that I am able to use the words shield and world in the same sentence because the world should not be a place to fear, but a place to love. It would be irresponsible of me to tell you not to be afraid because there is plenty of hurt in the world, but I do not want you to be blinded or jaded by all of it.
You can choose to focus on the greed, the envy, the lust, the gluttony, the pride, and the hatred that exists in this world, but I am imploring you to recognize the human capacity for compassion, humility, hope, resilience, sacrifice, joy and love. Do not disregard the evil that exists, but rather use it as motivation to keep moving forward. There is beauty and there is hurt in the world, but perhaps one cannot exist without the other.
Do not strive to become your best possible self because if you do, you are telling yourself that there is some end in sight to the person you are to become. You will constantly be evolving throughout your lifetime, just be sure not to lose sight of who you are, but it is perfectly okay if you do not know who you are because I am still trying to figure it out for myself.
You do not need to bend to fit into the confines of society. It is society’s job to accept you for who you are. Despite the fact that there are 7 billion some people that exist in this world, you are relevant and always will be.
Just remember, that you are your best possible self every minute of every day because you are human, and I love you for it.

Love,
Dad

What are some WhatsApp tricks we don't know?

Stop Someone From Knowing You Read His Message Or Not

You can stop whatsapp from showing someone else read notification. That is , no one can find out you read their message or not. The only disadvantage is that once you check this option, You also can not determine when your message was read by other.

Steps:-

Open your WhatsApp and tap three vertical dots icon on the top right of your screen.Now move to Settings > Account > Privacy.Uncheck Read receipts.

Red Hear Icon Expands And Animate

The red heart emoji on whatsapp expands and animate like a beating one. Try it.

Send A Message To All Your Friends At Once.
If you want to send a message to more than one person, you can use whatsapp broadcast feature.

For that you have to first create a broadcast list from your contacts.Once its ready, go to new broadcast and send message.It will be sent to all your friends.The only condition is that the person in your broadcast should also have your phone number saved on their phone.Backup Whatsapp Chats, Images And Videos On Your Google Drive Account 
. How to Hide Blue Ticks from Messages:

If you don't want to reply someone after reading their messages, you need to hide the blue ticks so that will sender think you didn't read his/her messages.
 To hide blue ticks follow the steps below:

Open WhatsApp.Go to settings.Tap on Account.Then tap on privacyFinally tap on Untick or uncheck Read Receipt.Done!

 How to mark Chats as Unread:

If you read a chat and forgot to reply it, you can mark the chat as unread so that you will see the chat later and reply it. Follow the steps-

Long press on the chat ( contact or group name) you what to mark unread.Open menu by tapping on the three dots at the right top corner of the screen.Tap on Mark as Unread.

ZARI DISCLOSES WHY SHE CALLED IT A QUIT

South African based Ugandan tycoon Zari Hassan has revealed that she loved Diamond Platnumz so much adding 'everyone knows about that.'

In a recent interview with Classic 105’s Maina Kageni, Zari disclosed the reason why she decided to call it quits with Diamond Platnumz. The business woman stated that Diamond frequently misbehaved on social media and she did not want her boys to take after him by disrespecting women when they grow up.

The mother of five also revealed that her children were insulted on social media when she was dating Diamond

ANOTHER GOODBYE FROM KIMANI MBUGUA

Kimani made the announcement on his twitter handle while reminiscing his moments at the Aga Khan-owned media house.
“Leaving @ntvkenya » after three awesome years at the @NationMediaGrp, this home will be missed together with all who made this young boy's dreams possible. Sasa naenda ivi nakam,” he said.

The Moi University graduate started his career at NMG as a radio presenter before transiting to TV. Apart from this, he was also a Digital Producer at NTV.

RINGTONE LETTER TO ZARI, THIS IS GETTING CRAZY

Ringtone is surely head over heels in love with Zari. He now says he has bought the Ugandan-South African based businesswoman a Range Rover.

He wrote:

“Dear Zari,
I know you are coming to Kenya anytime from now. I take this opportunity to welcome you to my beloved country.
I checked and I realised that you were in church ⛪ on Sunday am happy because it’s only in Jesus that you won’t be hurt like Diamond did. Pleaaaase stay in church and in God. You recently posted on your IG that you wanted a Range Rover OK I took note and I want to let the world know today that I have bought you a brand new Range Rover sport 2017 model. Am sorry I know you wanted white but I only managed a black one in color. Please arrange how to pick your key🔑 b4 you leave. While you in Kenya if you need anything let me know I will make sure it’s done for you.”

MEET KENYAN GOSPEL MUSICIAN, WILLY PAUL 'MIRACLE FAMILY'

Ooh yes, Kenyan Gospel musician Willy Paul, the pili pili hit maker, does it again, this is after Willy posted live on internet his family, It seems all this time Willy Paul has been married but no one knew, Willy Paul claims to be a dad to a very handsome baby and beautiful wife, Below is Willy Paul family you don't know about.