It's funny how most men treat women as though they are all about sex. She wants it yes, but it's not her first priority and not her major focus in a relationship. Unless you are dating a spoilt bandit who needs deliverance, a typical woman's need is not sex. Therefore, the size of your machine gun, how many rounds you give her in bed or how much screaming she does to the disturbance of the jirani doesn't really hack it. She could have all that and still be absolutely unsatisfied. Yes there is that one bandit full of sex craving spirits who will always want you to take her to the moon and back like you work for NASA and will judge you based on your sex skill... These are the bandits who have put men under pressure to enlarge things that are just ok... Now you have a man with a large burungo and a large ego but no heart...
A real woman's need is not sex but love. In the typical sense of the matter, the two words are not synonymous, but for the sake of getting love.. Or in the hope of getting love, she is forced to give in to sex. That's no wonder someone decided to call it 'making love'... As if the essence of sex is to manufacturer love. What is love? Love is committing to a person and deciding to be there for them both when they need you and when they don't need you. Yes, even when they don't need you... because a woman will tell you "go away" when what she really means is stay right here and hold me... Women crave to be loved, to be taken care of, to be shown they are the most important person in your life, to be treated with respect and to be adored & cherished both in private and in public. That's a woman's greatest need. That's why even the good book says "love you wife"... It doesn't say "sex your wife until she screams". Love is not a feeling, it's a decision. Liking someone is a feeling, loving someone is a decision.
For a woman, making love is done very far from the bed....
Taking a walk holding hands is more important to a woman than taking her to bed. Going to the shops to admire clothes, even when you won't buy them is more important than going to bed to take off her clothes... Her sitting on your laps and watching a movie is more valuable than her siting on you and jumping up and down like she is pumping water using a hand pump... A good morning text and checking on her every so often gives her more orgasms than "going deeper papa" as though you are an African pastor.
When you understand a woman and what she really needs, you will give her more life orgasms than all that faking she does in bed, in the hope of getting what she really needs: Attention, Care and Time. That's why she doesn't get horny as fast as you because getting horny for her takes: "I love you, I miss you, you look great, what can I do for you, what do you want to eat... etc".... That's why a woman will text or call you ten minutes after dropping her from a hot steamy sex escaped. And you as a man, foolishly satisfied, start wondering "what does she want now?" Because you don't understand that all that sex didn't really mean anything if you can't talk to her and show you care... That's why she wants you to hold her all night while you sleep because that's a sign of protection for her... But being the man that you are, you ride and win the race and then leave her craving for what she really needs... Loving a woman so well gives her orgasms even when she just thinks of you true???.......
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